
Secrecy is a key which most abused children/adults try to hold on. There are several reasons for this, one of which is because they might get “publicised” and “stamped.” In the society, abused children are always given less respect and often not allowed to be a part of the society. These children take the measure of being “silent”, to avoid social stamping of “abused.”
The fear of not getting justice is another reason why abused children keep quiet. In some cases the abused children are critised by the law and are punished (as it happened in Maldives). This fear pushes them back from asking for justice.
The psychological affects to the abused child is another, perhaps the, reason why abused children choose to be silent. They get in a phsychological situation called “disturbed” and are often reffered to as “phsychologically disturbed children.”
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August 23, 2007 at 3:35 pm
abuse… alienation.. insecurities.. lack self worthiness.. all of it contributes to the huge problem of child abuse.. it infiuriates me when ppl just brush it off as ’sex’ when infact its much much more..becuase these children spend most of their childhood and adult life fighting the after effects of it..
I am a whole hearted supporter of the fight against abuse ( sexual and otherwise) of our children as well as women and men..
If u ever need help u know where to find me
August 23, 2007 at 4:56 pm
Thank you Shanoo, for your enthusiasm and support.
August 23, 2007 at 6:08 pm
I’m not sure if the long response i left just now actually registered..I got cut disconnected.
Could you please let me know if you received it?
August 23, 2007 at 6:23 pm
Aisha,
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Thanks
August 24, 2007 at 9:57 pm
I should say what Shanoo said is absolutely true. And Ameer, btw; there were some leaflets distributed around Male’ by “Rights for All” to create awareness on the prevention of child abuse. As you said, its the victims of abuse who finally end up in blame like the girl tied to a horizontal bar by her burugaa; who was raped and broken down completely as onlookers enjoyed the treat in the woods by the beach in Villingili – a sattelite island eight minutes from Male’.